what do you think about this?
By malmy at 24 August, 2010, 4:00 am
So I have this neighbor named Nicole. She`s 17 years old I think. She`s good friends with this guy named Alex. He`s 18 years old. Alex is really an amazing guy. He`s really sweet and stuff. He`s even the lead singer in his band. I`m actually a big fan of his band. Recently, there has been rumors going around that Alex is dating Nicole. On twitter Alex and Nicole are even flirting sometimes. Some fans of Alex`s band were even @replying Nicole to stop flirting with Alex. Nicole just said "I love how people tell me what not to tweet. How about you go **** yourself? Okay thanks." I don`t about you guys but she just comes off as b*tchy to me. There are even pictures going around of Alex and Nicole like they were about to kiss. They even hold hands when they`re together. Alex`s bandmates were even teasing Alex about Nicole while they were on stage playing for a show.Yesterday, me and my friend even bumped into her while we were walking outside my house. My friend jokingly asked Nicole how it was like f*cking Alex. It was clearly just a joke. I can`t believe she just walked past us and ignored us. I always see Alex drive up to Nicole`s house and who knows what they could be doing there. It just really pisses me off that a really nice guy like Alex would even be friends with that monster. Do you think Nicole and Alex are in a relationship or are they just friends? Do you think Nicole is a b*tch? Why do you think an awesome guy like Alex would even like her? Do `re you think they`re having sex?
Wow. Your insisting that she is a monster when you yourself said you don’t know her. That is pretty much saying ‘I really don’t know this person but i’ll judge them on selective information and make them out to be who i want them to be no matter how they really are.’
Switching places for a moment can you imagine how horrible it would feel if someone said you were fucking around with someone in public? Joke or no joke that would have hurt anybody especially if your being harassed on a daily basis because of a RUMOR. See that…Rumor. Definition of a rumor "an unverified account or explanation of events circulating from person to person and pertaining to an object, event, or issue in public concern".
I think this Nicole is just trying to shut out all the mean people who want to make her miserable just because she looks a certain way or don’t like their own life’s and want to bully others.
Just because they flirt around doesn’t mean they’re together, how many times have you flirted with your friends and was serious?
Do you think it’s okay to watch or treat her this way just because she may or may not be dating someone you like? Think of it this way, would you be proud to show Alex how you act alone with her?…Could you look him in the eye and say you like seeing his friend suffer?
And from the way your friend acted toward her, do you think if you were in her position your friend wouldn’t talk to you the same way? Your friend seemed like a possessive type of fan of Alex…
I think you need to see past silly little things as who’s dating who and focus on YOUR life and how to make yourself happy not how to make others miserable. Have some courage and tell this Alex the way YOU feel. Not how others see it should be or that Alex is not for this person.
You can still change this situation from bad to good. Try actually hanging out with Nicole,even if your friends don’t like it, and maybe you’ll find you could be best friends. You never know, maybe you will become friends with Alex because you ACTUALLY are a good person.
But word of advice: Avoid the rumor subject, don’t bring it up, and keep all negative comments to yourself. Stay calm.
I don’t have a really good answer for you, but you know how it’s common for girls to like bad boys? I think the opposite is true. Sometimes, I think the good guys like the bad girls. That might not be the case here, but I don’t know enough about her to give you the real scoop.
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Years of guy research…
It’s not really your business what they do, and why would you wanna know if they are f*cking eachother, that makes you a perv. Just tell this guy what you feel, and maybe he’ll understand.
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I think Nicole is actually a very nice person whose being bullied and taunted, so she’s trying to get them to stop by being forceful and assertive (which I think is a good move on her part). I also kinda want to say you (and the other fans) seem to be really jealous of the fact that Alex is paying attention to Nicole, and not you. If they’re having sex, it’s none of your concern.
Alex must like her because of her personality, her looks, something that he really likes about her. I would say that you need to not worry about it. If the lead singer of your favorite band is in a relationship that works for him, let him be. He’ll make better music that way.
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Wow. Your insisting that she is a monster when you yourself said you don’t know her. That is pretty much saying ‘I really don’t know this person but i’ll judge them on selective information and make them out to be who i want them to be no matter how they really are.’
Switching places for a moment can you imagine how horrible it would feel if someone said you were fucking around with someone in public? Joke or no joke that would have hurt anybody especially if your being harassed on a daily basis because of a RUMOR. See that…Rumor. Definition of a rumor "an unverified account or explanation of events circulating from person to person and pertaining to an object, event, or issue in public concern".
I think this Nicole is just trying to shut out all the mean people who want to make her miserable just because she looks a certain way or don’t like their own life’s and want to bully others.
Just because they flirt around doesn’t mean they’re together, how many times have you flirted with your friends and was serious?
Do you think it’s okay to watch or treat her this way just because she may or may not be dating someone you like? Think of it this way, would you be proud to show Alex how you act alone with her?…Could you look him in the eye and say you like seeing his friend suffer?
And from the way your friend acted toward her, do you think if you were in her position your friend wouldn’t talk to you the same way? Your friend seemed like a possessive type of fan of Alex…
I think you need to see past silly little things as who’s dating who and focus on YOUR life and how to make yourself happy not how to make others miserable. Have some courage and tell this Alex the way YOU feel. Not how others see it should be or that Alex is not for this person.
You can still change this situation from bad to good. Try actually hanging out with Nicole,even if your friends don’t like it, and maybe you’ll find you could be best friends. You never know, maybe you will become friends with Alex because you ACTUALLY are a good person.
But word of advice: Avoid the rumor subject, don’t bring it up, and keep all negative comments to yourself. Stay calm.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rumor
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